Force vs. Power
Many times people tell me about people in their lives who they look up to. These people they look up to have actual inner confidence. Confidence is something which is at the core of your being if you have it. However, it is something which is often misunderstood. Many times people think that someone has the true power of confidence when in fact all they have is the ability to exert force. For example, a woman who is battered will think that she is with a confident man.
However, when we look at this situation more deeply we realize that she is dealing with a man who does not have the true power of confidence and has, instead, replaced that with the excessive use of force. Force can gain us an upper hand initially but in the long run it is highly unproductive and self destructive. Often time people who lack the power of true inner confidence will substitute force for that power early in their lives and simply maintain the habit of exerting force when the situation calls for a confident action or decision. By consistently making this inappropriate switch, it is possible to actually fool yourself into thinking you are powerful when in fact you are only forceful.
During this month, I urge you to take a look at yourself and others in your life and see if they are coming from a place of power or force. I am certainly not a person who believes in changing others against their will but it is important for you to realize what you are actually dealing with. If you decide that you are a person coming from a place of force rather than power, hypnosis is certainly a simple, fact, safe, and effective solution to this potential problem.
By being powerful, you'll find that you gain the respect of others and yourself very quickly. By simply being forceful, you'll find that you lose respect of others and yourself very quickly. So, I urge you to search deep within yourself with month, decide what your situation is, and make any appropriate changes.
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